What Is Respect Anyway?
Well, you could go look it up in the Dictionary...
(Don't bother, I already did ;)
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re·spect (r-spkt)
tr.v. re·spect·ed, re·spect·ing, re·spects
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- To feel or show deferential regard for; esteem.
- To avoid violation of or interference with: respect the speed limit.
- To relate or refer to; concern.
n.
- A feeling of appreciative, often deferential regard; esteem. See Synonyms at regard.
- The state of being regarded with honor or esteem.
- Willingness to show consideration or appreciation.
- respects Polite expressions of consideration or deference: pay one's respects.
- A particular aspect, feature, or detail: In many respects this is an important decision.
I like looking up definitions online because it's good to see just what a word means.
It's easy to loose the essence of a word, especially when it's overused.
"So, Monique, what's this all about?," you ask.
Well, a comment from a friend the other day made me think about Respect and how it relates to the business world.
Better yet, YOUR business and YOUR world!
I started thinking about what happy, fulfilled, profitable, business-people have in common.
This is what came to mind...They Respect The Three Following Things:
- Talent
- Time
- Money
1) When I say "Talent," I mean abilities. They know how to identify key abilities in themselves and others.
They pull these talents out and make them Shine.
They understand the importance of focusing on strengths, instead of weaknesses.
They get that when you use the talent available it will INCREASE.
It's very clear to them when ability is given and not used -- it literally ROTS in the vessel.
Which is more powerful and beneficial to the world?...
Someone who has more talent in their big toe than most, but squanders it OR someone who maximizes the one beautiful talent they have?
How can you identify an Up and Coming Star?
They know their talents and make them known.
2) Time is an interesting thing -- we all are given the same exact amount and there is no way to earn more, buy more, or get more.
Twenty-four hours each day, that's it.
Successful people have learned how to use their time to do the most good.
They see that it's about strategy, it's about planning.
The best time management only occurs when we are PRESENT enough to appreciate it.
They never waste it.
How can you recognize someone who respects their time? They respect yours.
3) Now for Money:
Money is a four letter word for most people.
Emotions swirl around it.
But successful people have learned that nothing has meaning, except the meaning YOU GIVE IT. Money in and of its self is just a piece of paper.
They have aligned their beliefs around money and their desired outcome.
They pick up a dime in the street.
They woo it in with kind words.
Want to know how to predict a person's capacity to earn? It's in exact proportion to their respect for money.
OK, Monique, bottom line it for me!
Unless you Respect TALENT, TIME AND MONEY -- don't expect to have a lot of it!
And if you don't respect them in yourself, you'll never respect them in others.
And if you don't respect them in others, you'll never be in the right crowd.
Respectfully, Monique Alvarez"Who you ASSOCIATE with PREDICTS your FUTURE."
-- Joe Schroeder
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Wow! I owe you a note…you just said SO much.
Looking forward to it Kalise :)
Respect, something the world needs more of today!
Totally Agree Byron…
One day at a time. One person at a time.
Absolutely right!
I used to be late all the time because I never respected myself, my time, or anyone else enough to make sure and be early.
Yea, I remember this ;)
I think it often happens when we are trying to fit TOO much in.
You always make me think Monique, thank you.
Excellent-Then I’m doing my job ;)
Loved your note on Respect. I looked it up and the root of the word means to ‘look back at’ — I’m hoping to live today in a way that I’ll feel good about as I ‘respect’ it!
Oh that’s so good Beth! It’s a great way to live.
I could not have written this any better! I love it, thanx Monique, you really know how to keep me on my toes! Thank you so much :-). I really needed this!
Happy when it works out like that Fatima ;)
Perfect Monique. Your posts continue to bring me to a place of self reflection. It holds so much value. thank you.
You are welcome Garren.
Self Reflection…take time for it Leaders.
Yes, ditto everyone! :) Much food for thought here… Yet what I got the most– that I must Honor (= respect) MYSELF enough to become the Leader that I DO respect ’ cause like attracts LIKE! Thanks for the boot! :)
That’s it Jana!
We tell people how we want them to treat us by how much we Honor and Respect Ourselves.
Respect is no. 1 with me.
Mom,
The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree! ;)
Oh heavens. I needed to read this Monique. I think this is powerful and I am grateful to have you in my life. Just printed this one out.
Rhea
Everyone shows up for a reason.
Deep meaningful words Monique„, You nailed it and that helps to define what attitude is demanded of us. There are a few things that we HAVE and respect is one of them.
Thanks Dad~
I was taught well!
Respect is such a feel good word. It brings me into the now. Very nice, Miss Monique!!!
Good Point Patti!
Living in the NOW.
I used to have a lot of trouble with respecting others time until my girlfriend made it an offense to be late to our date and one important she did was that she changed the clocks in my house to be ahead with about 30 minutes and that has seriously helped my time management.
Monique, thanks for showing me the other pert that I have to respect.
This is a great example, thank you for sharing your story.
Absolutely!
Hey Monique
A great post well put.
I am happy that I invested my time in reading this.
You definitely have a great talent for leading those who chose to follow in the right direction, which is to the bank to stack all our money ;-).
Respect for this
Dwayne
Dwayne I’m LOVING that visual!
Respect takes us to higher places. Those three things, if respected and allowed to mature, are of the essence of life. I thank you for sharing so gracefully.
I just found this quote:
“It is my hope someday to see science and decision makers rediscover what the ancients have always known, namely that our highest currency is respect.“
– Nassim Nicholas Taleb
Thanks for that Monique! Very awesome way to put it all into perspective.